We don't do well with infinity and endless possibility, and so we break things down into individual units and into stories. And then we accidentally believe in those stories, and we accidentally start acting them out. Stories about what love is, what happiness is. What men are, what women are. Unable to shape our own stories about the madness that surrounds us, we get infected with other people's stories, trying to ignore the discomfort that comes with an imperfect fit. Jessa Crispin
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  5. It is always easier to find your sense of value by demeaning another’s value. It is easier to define yourself as ‘not that, ’ rather than do an actual accounting of your own qualities and put them on the scale.

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